The reason I don't like radical feminists

[Wezil]

She spanks me every now and then. But usually when I deserve it.

[Cort Haus]

Pekka's basically right here.

Equality
Revenge

I've known my share of men-haters, and I've known my share of decent, equality-seeking, strong, real women, and the latter are the good ones.

[Pekka]

and for the record, I don't condone the sexist behavior of men who use authority in working place as a shield and then make remarks that are not cool. Then again, some of these femmies interpret everything as a sexist remark. But the obvious ones, the ones that make women uncomfortable in general, those are oppressive and not to be condoned.

This doesn't apply to femmies though, they can say what ever the **** they want, working place is the preferred audience, because no one will answer their war cry, as in people want to behave as professionals. I think the line is not vague, it's very clear. When you are making someone feel uncomfortable, it's too much, you crossed the line. Even sexist remarks, if it's between two people and they both feel cool with it, I don't see a problem. Like if some dude has a secretary and he likes her to wear short skirts and flirt, and if that REALLY is OK with the secretary, I don't see a problem, as long as that stays between those two people. Bad example actually, I don't think that's proper behavior in professional setting, but anyway, I don't see it being sexist in itself, as in when it becomes a problem. If there would be other people present, then it would be a problem, because then you're dominating that person in front of others. Kind of like giving negative personal feedback to someone in front of his peers or even subordinates. That's Baaaaaad. You do it 1-on-1.

Just like if I had a boss who is a woman, who feels the need to punish me a bit every now and then, I wouldn't consider it necessarily a problem, if I have been naughty of course, and I don't have another woman at home who should be the one correcting my ways that is. It woudl be wrong because it's unprofessional and doesn't fit to the working environment, a place to work and not do any games and be distracted like that and waste time, however, other than that? I mean I did eat the last cookie and didn't ask for permission. I couldn't resist myself. I knew it was wrong. I should be punished.

[Pekka]

Cort Haus, exactly. We need more strong women. We need less man haters.

[Shrapnel12]

Actually, I kinda like the slutty ones too.

[Sirotnikov]

I'll take that person as an individual, but if I'm not an individual myself in this same event... if I'm being given roles, that's just not going to cut it.

that's an interesting way to look at it.

[Lancer]

We need more feminine women.

[Blake]

Originally posted by Aeson
This is true of all women. Just some do it in different ways.

QFT

Although in fairness it's not only true of women .

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Pekka
shraplen, it is about power. You ask from radical femmie, "what do you want?" "equal rights!" "Ok you have them already, I can't change other peoples attitudes but at least the law doesn't favour men, so what you want?". The real answer is "everything".

It's about power.

As much as your extensive ranting is worthless, this is right. They want power. Equal rights is not power. And why should the dominant group get all the power.

Also, Feminism isn't women against men. It's a world view.

[Lancer]

You're very young aren't you?

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Lancer
You're very young aren't you?

wtf?

[Lancer]

That pov needs to sit in a bottle in a cellar and change a bit.

[Kidlicious]

Originally posted by Lancer
That pov needs to sit in a bottle in a cellar and change a bit.

I'm glad you think so.

[Imran Siddiqui]

Well, equal rights is only half of the equation to actual equality. Equal rights is nice, but if the people in charge have an unequal POV, well, not much is going to happen and steps have to be taken to get attitudes to change. I mean look at black people in the US, even after Jim Crow was abolished, there was an attitude that needed to be fought (and in some places STILL has to be fought).

So after the acquisition of equal rights, now one must fight an unequal attitude... and perhaps that will mean making the young generation have a different POV through constant action against the current power generation (making the young see the unequality of power dynamics).

But I've said too much already .

[jkp1187]

Can't we all just get along?