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I found this BBC article to be interesting. It appears that in Japan western style weddings are quickly replacing the traditional Shinto style wedding and now 90% of all weddings in Japan are now done in the western/Christian style. This has made a lucrative new business for westerners living in Japan to fake being a Christian priest so that they can get paid to perform western style weddings for Japanese couples.
I know a Chinese couple who moved to the US and they told me that they also did a western style wedding instead of a traditional Chinese wedding and that in modern China it is not unusual for a couple to first do a western wedding and then a traditional Chinese wedding. Personally, I find the idea of two weddings to be excessively expensive but the Chinese always did enjoy a good party with family, friends, and lots of food. I understand that western weddings are also big in Korea.
So what do you think is causing this? Is it western TV and movies? Is it just that people like the symbolism of a bride in a flowing white dress (to show her supposed purity), the kiss at the end, the enduring symbol of the ring? Anyway, it's interesting.
Faking it as a priest in Japan
With a rise in the popularity of Christian-style weddings in Japan, some Westerners are finding they can make a lucrative living by acting as priests. But it does not please everyone, particularly genuine priests, as Kathleen McCaul reports.
Mark Kelly
Mark Kelly acts as a fake priest at the weekend
Mark Kelly is originally from Lancashire in England. He has been living in Japan for six years and, at the weekend, he is a fake priest.
"I was living in Sapporo, studying Japanese, and I needed the money. It's far better paid than teaching in a language school," he said.
"Being a fake priest is big business in Japan - I've done a TV commercial for one company," he added. "In Sapporo, there are five agencies employing about 20 fake priests. In a city like Tokyo, there must be hundreds."
The fake Western priests are employed at Western-style weddings to give a performance and add to the atmosphere. These are not legal ceremonies - the couples also have to make a trip to the local registrar.
"In the past almost all weddings in Japan were Shinto, but in the last few years Western-style weddings have appeared and become very popular," said one Japanese priest.
It is important for the bride and groom to have a proper wedding, and they are not getting it from these foreign priests
Japanese priest
"People like the dress, the kiss and the image. Japanese Christians make up only 1% of the country, but now about 90% of weddings are in the Christian style."
"At the hotel where I work, there is a Christian chapel next to a Shinto chapel. The Christian chapel is always in use, but the Shinto chapel is being used as a storeroom," Mr Kelly said.
The fake Western priests are used to create an authentic Christian feel.
"There are Japanese priests, but most couples are trying to re-create a European wedding, so overwhelmingly ask for a foreign priest," said Momo, who works at Morito Ishi Kyokai (forest and stone) chapel.
Supermarket chic
Western-style chapels are often found in unexpected places.
Morito Ishi Kyokai is on the sixth floor of a supermarket in Sapporo.
As you walk between sushi restaurants, cake shops and noodle bars, a grey plastic stone grotto decked in plastic flowers and fairy lights suddenly appears.
Wedding dresses in a shop in Tokyo
Many Japanese couples want Western-style weddings
There are plastic cherubs and little fountains inside.
"It is designed in the style of mid-century stone churches in Europe," said Momo.
Mr Kelly worked at the chapel when it first opened.
"Because it was in a shopping centre, you got the sounds of vegetables on special offer," he said.
"It's very popular because it's still new," added Momo.
Omi Junko plays the flute in a club and comes to the chapel to practise.
"I like to come here. It has a good atmosphere because it is a church," she said.
Hazards of the job
The fake priests in Japan sometimes have to deal with difficult situations.
"Once I was holding a ceremony and an old man dressed head to toe in military uniform hobbled to the front and fell asleep," said Mr Kelly.
"Halfway through the service, he opened his eyes and I think he was back in Burma or Thailand. He looked straight at me, stood up and started unsheathing his rifle. Fortunately he was pretty slow and his relatives stopped him."
Once, the bride vomited on me and then fainted. It wasn't very romantic
Mark Kelly
Mr Kelly has often presided over ceremonies where the bride is pregnant.
"It is common. Once, the bride vomited on me and then fainted. It wasn't very romantic," he said.
Another difficulty is meeting genuine Japanese priests.
"We do occasionally bump into the real thing. They are very much against us, but there are not enough genuine Japanese priests to meet the demand" he said.
One Japanese Christian priest spoke out, but did not want to be identified.
"It is a real problem for us. They are not genuine and they give us a bad name," he said.
"It is important for the bride and groom to have a proper wedding, and they are not getting it from these foreign priests. I have even heard of hotels using staff when they can't find anyone else."
Omi Junko was surprised to find out that some of the Western priests were not genuine.
"I thought the priests were all real and I think everyone in Japan thinks that," she said.
But Mr Kelly argues that the ceremony is not about religion, but about image.
"I give a good performance. I use an Apache wedding prayer in my ceremony. It works very well, although I had to take out the part about the bear god in the sky," he said.
"If people are crying by the end of the wedding, I think I have done a good job."
I know a Chinese couple who moved to the US and they told me that they also did a western style wedding instead of a traditional Chinese wedding and that in modern China it is not unusual for a couple to first do a western wedding and then a traditional Chinese wedding. Personally, I find the idea of two weddings to be excessively expensive but the Chinese always did enjoy a good party with family, friends, and lots of food. I understand that western weddings are also big in Korea.
So what do you think is causing this? Is it western TV and movies? Is it just that people like the symbolism of a bride in a flowing white dress (to show her supposed purity), the kiss at the end, the enduring symbol of the ring? Anyway, it's interesting.
Faking it as a priest in Japan
With a rise in the popularity of Christian-style weddings in Japan, some Westerners are finding they can make a lucrative living by acting as priests. But it does not please everyone, particularly genuine priests, as Kathleen McCaul reports.
Mark Kelly
Mark Kelly acts as a fake priest at the weekend
Mark Kelly is originally from Lancashire in England. He has been living in Japan for six years and, at the weekend, he is a fake priest.
"I was living in Sapporo, studying Japanese, and I needed the money. It's far better paid than teaching in a language school," he said.
"Being a fake priest is big business in Japan - I've done a TV commercial for one company," he added. "In Sapporo, there are five agencies employing about 20 fake priests. In a city like Tokyo, there must be hundreds."
The fake Western priests are employed at Western-style weddings to give a performance and add to the atmosphere. These are not legal ceremonies - the couples also have to make a trip to the local registrar.
"In the past almost all weddings in Japan were Shinto, but in the last few years Western-style weddings have appeared and become very popular," said one Japanese priest.
It is important for the bride and groom to have a proper wedding, and they are not getting it from these foreign priests
Japanese priest
"People like the dress, the kiss and the image. Japanese Christians make up only 1% of the country, but now about 90% of weddings are in the Christian style."
"At the hotel where I work, there is a Christian chapel next to a Shinto chapel. The Christian chapel is always in use, but the Shinto chapel is being used as a storeroom," Mr Kelly said.
The fake Western priests are used to create an authentic Christian feel.
"There are Japanese priests, but most couples are trying to re-create a European wedding, so overwhelmingly ask for a foreign priest," said Momo, who works at Morito Ishi Kyokai (forest and stone) chapel.
Supermarket chic
Western-style chapels are often found in unexpected places.
Morito Ishi Kyokai is on the sixth floor of a supermarket in Sapporo.
As you walk between sushi restaurants, cake shops and noodle bars, a grey plastic stone grotto decked in plastic flowers and fairy lights suddenly appears.
Wedding dresses in a shop in Tokyo
Many Japanese couples want Western-style weddings
There are plastic cherubs and little fountains inside.
"It is designed in the style of mid-century stone churches in Europe," said Momo.
Mr Kelly worked at the chapel when it first opened.
"Because it was in a shopping centre, you got the sounds of vegetables on special offer," he said.
"It's very popular because it's still new," added Momo.
Omi Junko plays the flute in a club and comes to the chapel to practise.
"I like to come here. It has a good atmosphere because it is a church," she said.
Hazards of the job
The fake priests in Japan sometimes have to deal with difficult situations.
"Once I was holding a ceremony and an old man dressed head to toe in military uniform hobbled to the front and fell asleep," said Mr Kelly.
"Halfway through the service, he opened his eyes and I think he was back in Burma or Thailand. He looked straight at me, stood up and started unsheathing his rifle. Fortunately he was pretty slow and his relatives stopped him."
Once, the bride vomited on me and then fainted. It wasn't very romantic
Mark Kelly
Mr Kelly has often presided over ceremonies where the bride is pregnant.
"It is common. Once, the bride vomited on me and then fainted. It wasn't very romantic," he said.
Another difficulty is meeting genuine Japanese priests.
"We do occasionally bump into the real thing. They are very much against us, but there are not enough genuine Japanese priests to meet the demand" he said.
One Japanese Christian priest spoke out, but did not want to be identified.
"It is a real problem for us. They are not genuine and they give us a bad name," he said.
"It is important for the bride and groom to have a proper wedding, and they are not getting it from these foreign priests. I have even heard of hotels using staff when they can't find anyone else."
Omi Junko was surprised to find out that some of the Western priests were not genuine.
"I thought the priests were all real and I think everyone in Japan thinks that," she said.
But Mr Kelly argues that the ceremony is not about religion, but about image.
"I give a good performance. I use an Apache wedding prayer in my ceremony. It works very well, although I had to take out the part about the bear god in the sky," he said.
"If people are crying by the end of the wedding, I think I have done a good job."
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