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**Addled Platypus** · October 25, 2006, 04:22

a shrink, really

her trust issues are deep

**Winston** · October 25, 2006, 05:18

No, I don't think that will help much. Most shrinks are even harder to love than ordinary people.

(Sorry.)

**FrostyBoy** · October 25, 2006, 05:23

Sorry, I am not familiar with the word shrink.

Gonna look up in a dictionary.

Oh I just recalled what it is from a movie. It's a psychiatrist right?

**DaShi** · October 25, 2006, 05:28

The only thing odd about this girl is that she's telling the truth.

**Winston** · October 25, 2006, 05:31

Originally posted by Sn00py
It's a psychiatrist right?

Yep.

**Cort Haus** · October 25, 2006, 05:35

Don't try to take this problem on yourself. You say you have already done a million nice things for her. If this is an attempt to buy her love then it won't ever work.

There's nothing worse than unrequited love - so give up on it. She may find love much later in life if she meets the right person. I know a woman who didn't find love until she was about 40, and now she's happy with her man.

She sounds quite self-pitying actually, which is a repugnant vice.

**Spec** · October 25, 2006, 07:38

Re: I know a girl who does not know how to love.

Originally posted by Sn00py
I really like this girl at work; infact it is more than that, and we are great for each other, get on well, we are the same in many aspects.

However there is one snag, she is mentally unable to love. She does not know how to get herself to do it, she hates this fact, she wishes she could get out of it, but she does not know how or why she is like this.

She says she has a problem with trust, yes her parents broke up (father left); but I do not believe this is the only reason she cannot love another person, because she was kind of like this before that event happened.

Can any of you suggest what I can do for her? I have done a million nice things to her, always been there for her, I have not once given any sign that I would not do anything for her; and even her ex-bf was the same.

such a shame really.. she is a really great girl.. friend to everyone, lover to no one.

Bull****. I dont beleive it. You probably to nice and she is not looking for that.

She's not able to love because she hasn't found the right guy yet. Thta's the problem.

Love is not something you decide to do like taking a shower, it's something that happens.

Let me meet her, she'll fall in love.

Spec.

**FrostyBoy** · October 25, 2006, 07:45

Spec, actually you are right, she complains that her ex-bf is too nice and that I am too nice.

She needs an *******, so that she doesn't look so bad to him, haha. maybe..

**Spec** · October 25, 2006, 08:02

Originally posted by Sn00py
Spec, actually you are right, she complains that her ex-bf is too nice and that I am too nice.

It's a gift with girls.

She needs an *******, so that she doesn't look so bad to him, haha. maybe..

Not an *******, someone she wont take for granted. Somewone she'll be afraid to lose, and if you're to nice, she knows anything she does, she'll get away with. And most girls dont want that, even though most guys think that that's what they want.

Spec.

**Cort Haus** · October 25, 2006, 08:04

Re: Re: I know a girl who does not know how to love.

Originally posted by Spec
Let me meet her, she'll fall in love.

Actually, what we need is a narcissism smiley.

**Spec** · October 25, 2006, 08:06

It was a joke dude...

but a narcissism smiley would suit me well though...

Spec.

**SlowwHand** · October 25, 2006, 08:11

Better?

**Spec** · October 25, 2006, 08:17

Better?! Meaning?

Spec.

**SlowwHand** · October 25, 2006, 08:24

Does that meet with your approval?

Snoopy. You're saying the girl of your dreams is a girl who does not know how to love?
I think we have a case of 2 people with problems.

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