High price for back-door beauty

[Kuciwalker]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
Well, my back door is certainly beautiful

agghh... must resist the obvious...

[DanS]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
This is a serious issue. Should women allow their bodies to be invaded in this way just to please men?

Not to put too fine a point on things, but I think they're doing it to please themselves more than anything.

[Sava]

Re: High price for back-door beauty

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
who can blame them?

Me.

Getting butchered by some plastic surgeon because you have low self-esteem? Sorry. People who go to those extreme measures have serious problems. If it's about weight, there are healthy ways of dealing with weight loss. Unfortunately, people are too lazy to work for it and are concerned with getting a quick fix. So yeah, I can blame someone for not wanting to put forth the effort and being patient.

I don't blame someone for looking the way they are or having low self-esteem. I blame them for the actions they take in response to feeling that way. Anyone can educate themselves, see their doctor, or do any number of perfectly healthy things to make themselves more physically fit.

But doing such stupid and irresponsible things like going to some butcher surgeon?

Yeah, I can blame them for that.

If they die (without children), they'd be Darwin Awards.

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by Sandman


No. That doesn't mean they should be stopped, but it should be discouraged. Heavily regulated too, although that goes without saying.

You really want a bunch of fat old white men deciding what women can and can't allow to be done to them? If she really wants to do it, and it makes her husband/boyfriend happy then who are we to judge? As long as the procedure is followed by a thorough sterilization and proper ointments are applied, then why should we stick our noses in it (a topic for another day, that one).

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by DanS


Not to put too fine a point on things, but I think they're doing it to please themselves more than anything.

Do you really think that there are a lot of women doing this to themselves when there's no man involved?

[Dr Strangelove]

Originally posted by Provost Harrison
Well, my back door is certainly beautiful

"All things bright and beautiful
All creatures great and small
All things wise and wonderful
The Lord God made them all"

[Bugs ****ing Bunny]

Sadly, this is one of those issues where it's all too easy to become desensitised. The first time, it's painful and shocking to accept- but having seen the pleasant (yet transient) results, the danger is that we (as a community) start to wecome and applaud it.

Then it becomes the norm, and those reluctant to follow this practice are viewed as being in some way repressed. As demand increases, the procedure plummets down-market until it's largely carried out by clumsy and drunken amateurs with dirty and blood-stained tools. Any temporary benefits are soon replaced by the trauma of seeing one's previous youthful tautness replaced by a slack, scarred and infected hell-hole.

We need a cultural change. It's probably just as effective to use a vigorous application of cream rubbed into the Brazilian in question, rather than go for these painful and intrusive measures.

[Sandman]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
You really want a bunch of fat old white men deciding what women can and can't allow to be done to them? If she really wants to do it, and it makes her husband/boyfriend happy then who are we to judge? As long as the procedure is followed by a thorough sterilization and proper ointments are applied, then why should we stick our noses in it (a topic for another day, that one).

I said it should be discouraged, not outlawed. There's a good chance the state will end up paying, be it for repairing surgery that goes wrong or psychological treatment after the procedure fails to have the intended effect.

[DRoseDARs]

Originally posted by Jon Miller

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anus_bleaching

JM

Anal bleaching is the practice of bleaching the darker pigmentation of the skin around the anus for cosmetic purposes. A cream is used containing around 2% hydroquinone (a suspected carcinogen banned by several countries including France and the UK).

This practice causes ass cancer?

[Jon Miller]

Colon cancer is already one of the most killing cancers..

JM

[Kuciwalker]

Colon

[DanS]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
Do you really think that there are a lot of women doing this to themselves when there's no man involved?

Well, let's put it this way. Beauty magazines and the like are meant to push women's fantasy buttons, not men's. It's a matter of keeping up with the Joneses -- internal pressure.

If you aren't looking for an ideal, looking good isn't expensive. Leaving aside a cleft pallet, etc.

[Elok]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
So you're saying that just because a woman isn't all that attractive she, in a sense, "owes" it to her boyfriend/husband to allow herself to be poked and prodded in such a demeaning way?

To be fair, I don't know that he was implying what women SHOULD do. He just said something like "if they don't want to diet and they want to be thin, yeah," which is more or less correct. Should they want to be thin, they can either diet/exercise or do a quick and dirty liposuction. Short of deliberately ingesting tapeworm eggs or something, that is pretty much the only way of achieving said result. He didn't say that they should want to be thin that badly, strictly speaking.

[KrazyHorse]

Originally posted by DanS


Well, let's put it this way. Beauty magazines and the like are meant to push women's fantasy buttons, not men's

Have you often seen this is beauty magazines?

. It's a matter of keeping up with the Joneses -- internal pressure.

Yes, I've heard that the attraction comes from internal pressure

[DanS]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
Have you often seen this is beauty magazines?

I'm making a broader point. The fantasy world of these women isn't driven primarily by their SOs being abusive. These fantasy worlds don't always have the same or similar laws of nature as IRL. Same goes for men, of course. All part of the human condition.

JHC, this is one stupid troll.