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  • #46
    Originally posted by Ted Striker
    Best advice in all situations is just to not take things too seriously and not have any expectations

    If it works out that's great but don't beat yourself up if it doesn't
    Ted Striker
    "I have been reading up on the universe and have come to the conclusion that the universe is a good thing." -- Dissident
    "I never had the need to have a boner." -- Dissident
    "I have never cut off my penis when I was upset over a girl." -- Dis

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    • #47
      He'd hit it.
      "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man." -- JFK Inaugural, 1961
      "Extremism in the defense of liberty is not a vice." -- Barry Goldwater, 1964 GOP Nomination acceptance speech (not George W. Bush 40 years later...)
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      • #48
        So Dis, how did it go?
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        • #49
          Just go for it.
          Try http://wordforge.net/index.php for discussion and debate.

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          • #50
            You'll never know unless you try.
            "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man." -- JFK Inaugural, 1961
            "Extremism in the defense of liberty is not a vice." -- Barry Goldwater, 1964 GOP Nomination acceptance speech (not George W. Bush 40 years later...)
            2004 Presidential Candidate
            2008 Presidential Candidate (for what its worth)

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            • #51
              Originally posted by Urban Ranger
              So Dis, how did it go?
              if you must know, I chickened out. .

              I like her alot. But I've been unsuccessful with women uglier than her. And this one might be too cute for me. She has a few extra pounds, but she is cute. Not beautiful or anything, but I still think she might be out of my league.

              I'm just going to give up on women. I can get to friend status, and no further.

              Which isn't bad. My best friend is a woman. It's nice to be loved. So I have pretty much all the perks of a relationship- except the sex. But I'm used to going without that.

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              • #52
                Originally posted by Dis


                if you must know, I chickened out. .

                I like her alot. But I've been unsuccessful with women uglier than her. And this one might be too cute for me. She has a few extra pounds, but she is cute. Not beautiful or anything, but I still think she might be out of my league.
                What a bunch of crap. Beauty has nothing to do with a person being "out of your league" or not. It's all about feelings and personality.

                I'm just going to give up on women. I can get to friend status, and no further.

                Which isn't bad. My best friend is a woman. It's nice to be loved. So I have pretty much all the perks of a relationship- except the sex. But I'm used to going without that.
                Go the Ted Striker route. Don't take things too seriously, don't have expectations wrt finding a girlfriend. But when you have an opportunity, then try to seize it. By keeping it light-hearted.

                I have taken this approach a bare three monthes ago (after convincincing myself that I can't get beyond friend status), and even though I'm still without a girlfriend, I feel much better now. And I trust it'll happen eventually.
                "I have been reading up on the universe and have come to the conclusion that the universe is a good thing." -- Dissident
                "I never had the need to have a boner." -- Dissident
                "I have never cut off my penis when I was upset over a girl." -- Dis

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                • #53
                  but I still think she might be out of my league
                  Keep thinking that way and it will be true
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                  • #54
                    Originally posted by Dis
                    if you must know, I chickened out. .
                    Remember, no guts, no glory. Though this time you have accidentally done the right thing. I think.

                    Originally posted by Dis
                    I like her alot. But I've been unsuccessful with women uglier than her. And this one might be too cute for me. She has a few extra pounds, but she is cute. Not beautiful or anything, but I still think she might be out of my league.
                    You can't tell unless you have tried. I have seen beautiful women end up with fugly men.

                    As Spiffor said don't take it too seriously, at least for now.
                    (\__/) 07/07/1937 - Never forget
                    (='.'=) "Claims demand evidence; extraordinary claims demand extraordinary evidence." -- Carl Sagan
                    (")_(") "Starting the fire from within."

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                    • #55
                      update: we all know you guys are on the edge of your seats with regards to news of my love life

                      I do have a date with this woman. don't have time to explain now (as poly has been down all day). later

                      it's been so long since I've dated though, I'm not sure what to do.

                      any dating advice would be appreciated.

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                      • #56
                        It appears Dis got bored when Poly went down and grew a pair!!!!

                        Congrats.

                        My advice on dating? Be yourself but don't forget to be polite. You don't want to be with someone who thinks you are someone other than yourself. However, you also need to be polite. Get her talking about herself, they like that. Open the door for her, let her order first, etc... She may be a women, but she also has feelings

                        Don't show up empty handed. Take her something, even something a simple as a rose. Just don't give some cheesy line with it.

                        Dress like you care about how you look.

                        Compliment her appearance when you first see her.

                        And finally, get her to pay...
                        Monkey!!!

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                        • #57
                          Good luck
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                          • #58
                            I'm the living proof; I had very beautiful girlfriend; beautiful and mature and I'm not pretty.

                            Oh yeah Dis, I'm sure you already know that but they're no key to bring a women into your bed, or develloping a love/passion relashionship with them.

                            If you'r pretty or you look like a muscle man, you just have to go in a bar and choose your women; women in bar are oftenly stupid.(like guy).

                            But if you look like the average guy or even less. You have to concentrate to your strong points. Me, I know how to talk to a girl, I know how to look at them, how to smile at them, it's natural, I know how to make them smile, what kind of thing to say, to make them smile and laught... without being stupid and vulgar. Oh yeah, making a girl smile is the 3/4 of the work...

                            I'm sure you're a guy of passion. Please, assume this passion, make the women know you're a living fire. Please when you hesitate with them, they feel that. And this is the worst things to do... Hesitation make women go away, or they just want to be your... friend.

                            Just concentrate on your strongs points.

                            Good Luck!

                            Originally posted by Urban Ranger

                            You can't tell unless you have tried. I have seen beautiful women end up with fugly men.

                            As Spiffor said don't take it too seriously, at least for now.
                            Last edited by CrONoS; May 19, 2006, 20:45.
                            bleh

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                            • #59
                              lock up your girlfriends and daughters, Dis the playa is back in action.

                              Okay I feel good, so sue me.

                              although stories like this make me hesitant to get back in the dating game.

                              http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/story?section=local&id=4183089


                              All it really shows is not to date bipolar chicks. Thankfully this girl is not bipolar. .

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                              • #60
                                Originally posted by Dis
                                All it really shows is not to date bipolar chicks.
                                Twice the action.
                                "And so, my fellow Americans: ask not what your country can do for you—ask what you can do for your country. My fellow citizens of the world: ask not what America will do for you, but what together we can do for the freedom of man." -- JFK Inaugural, 1961
                                "Extremism in the defense of liberty is not a vice." -- Barry Goldwater, 1964 GOP Nomination acceptance speech (not George W. Bush 40 years later...)
                                2004 Presidential Candidate
                                2008 Presidential Candidate (for what its worth)

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