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  • The practical difference is that the retirement funds are one-way while the rainy day fund is potentially two-way. The rainy day fund is in a liquid investment in case I lose my job or I stupidly wrote a check from my normal account that's about to bounce. The bad thing about a liquid two way account is that some people may want to borrow money from you, in which case it's tough to give the excuse that none of your money is liquid (family political management is an interesting topic).
    Last edited by DanS; September 29, 2005, 12:18.
    I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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    • Think about this-- if you got a 10% raise tomorrow, would you think to automatically adjust some of the amounts?
      No. For the 401(k), I give a %-age, so that takes care of itself. I guess I could adjust the rainy day and other funds every 3 or 4 years. Or when my salary goes down, for instance.
      I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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      • Originally posted by DanS
        The practical difference is that the retirement funds are one-way while the rainy day fund is potentially two-way. The rainy day fund is in a liquid investment in case I lose my job or I stupidly wrote a check from my normal account that's about to bounce.
        OK-- In Canada all the retirement funds are two way although they subtract income tax on a withdrawal of funds.

        On losing a job, wouldn't your employer have to give you pay in lieu of notice??

        A bouncy cheque is unlikely for me since I use my credit card for all major purchases. I think my last cheque was 4 or 5 months ago
        You don't get to 300 losses without being a pretty exceptional goaltender.-- Ben Kenobi speaking of Roberto Luongo

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        • OK-- In Canada all the retirement funds are two way although they subtract income tax on a withdrawal of funds.
          Similar in the US, but there's also a withdrawal penalty. So in my mind, it's more convenient to think of it as one way.

          On losing a job, wouldn't your employer have to give you pay in lieu of notice??
          No. Don't get me wrong. I'm not planning on getting fired, but you never know what will happen that's outside my employer's control.

          A bouncy cheque is unlikely for me since I use my credit card for all major purchases. I think my last cheque was 4 or 5 months ago
          It's unlikely for me too, since I only write one check a month. But wouldn't you know it, the rainy day fund saved my bacon on this about 9 months ago (Bad at math, profligate, unreliable...). I don't balance my checkbook, so it's still possible to do.
          Last edited by DanS; September 29, 2005, 12:32.
          I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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          • Originally posted by DanS


            Or when my salary goes down, for instance.
            Salaries go down


            Sorry-I know they do, but I am caught in a booming oil town where EVERYTHING is going up up up and the major problem is a lack of enough skilled people to keep up. heck I think many companies are now advertising internationally to try to meet their long term needs
            You don't get to 300 losses without being a pretty exceptional goaltender.-- Ben Kenobi speaking of Roberto Luongo

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            • Hey, I oughta move to your oil town. Any six-figure USD salaries for spreadsheet monkeys like myself?

              But in any event, salaries can go down by moving to a different job or in my case, less overtime.
              I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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              • Originally posted by Shogun Gunner
                deficit spend and don't worry about it. Your future income will "grow you out of debt"

                No need to plan for natural disasters either.... everything will be fine.
                Believe it or not, this bet mostly works. It worked for me. However, keep in mind that it will take you 10 to 15 years to pay off your cards, depending on your lifestyle. Took me 10 years.

                It would have been preferable in hindsight to have somebody sit me down at age 5 and explain a couple of tricks to money management and to have a discussion about human nature with regard to money. But my mom and dad are from a different era where they placed a lot of stock in self control and not a lot in very long-term planning, so their thoughts on the matter are worse than useless.
                Last edited by DanS; September 29, 2005, 13:00.
                I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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                • Originally posted by DanS


                  Believe it or not, this bet mostly works.
                  very easy to believe for an individual when they have the potential to double or triple their income in a year.

                  Originally posted by DanS


                  However, keep in mind that it will take you 10 to 15 years to pay off your cards, depending on your lifestyle. Took me 10 years.

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                  I didn't get too far in the hole in school but it still took about 5 years. My current non-mortgage debt was actually ALL related to the house purchase and will disappear soon


                  Originally posted by DanS

                  It would have preferable to have somebody sit me down and explain a couple of tricks to money management and to have a discussion about human nature with regard to money.
                  I never had that talk but my parents were very careful money managers. At a pretty early age I got an allowance and learned to live on it. I think I learned intuitively that if people have money, they tend to spend it. I can recall leaving afew bucks in cash at home so I wouldn't spend it all on one night
                  You don't get to 300 losses without being a pretty exceptional goaltender.-- Ben Kenobi speaking of Roberto Luongo

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                  • How does keeping your rainy day fund in buyandhold work? Don't you have to pay transaction fees and risk the ups and downs of the market? I keep my rainy day fund in an ING direct savings account.
                    “It is no use trying to 'see through' first principles. If you see through everything, then everything is transparent. But a wholly transparent world is an invisible world. To 'see through' all things is the same as not to see.”

                    ― C.S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man

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                    • The account sweeps to a money market fund fee-free, so there's extremely little risk. It's always liquid. If I get too have too much money in my rainy day fund (which would be great), I could always invest a portion in less liquid investments. It's a limited brokerage account, after all (you can't buy options or sell short).
                      I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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                      • Originally posted by Flubber
                        I never had that talk but my parents were very careful money managers. At a pretty early age I got an allowance and learned to live on it. I think I learned intuitively that if people have money, they tend to spend it. I can recall leaving afew bucks in cash at home so I wouldn't spend it all on one night
                        I had to figure it out later in life. My dad is a wildcatter, so I had a more tactile feel for acceptable risk. But I had little understanding for human nature and the fact that money burns a whole in your pocket so thoroughly.

                        very easy to believe for an individual when they have the potential to double or triple their income in a year.
                        Yes, like a student.
                        I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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                        • Originally posted by DanS
                          But I had little understanding for human nature and the fact that money burns a whole in your pocket so thoroughly.
                          Not mine, thank God.

                          I hate spending money. It hurts me a little bit each time I buy something. I'm sometimes amazed at the things I'll do to save a buck.
                          12-17-10 Mohamed Bouazizi NEVER FORGET
                          Stadtluft Macht Frei
                          Killing it is the new killing it
                          Ultima Ratio Regum

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                          • cheapo
                            urgh.NSFW

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                            • As a day-to-day matter, I like spending money. Lots of it. I might get buyer's remorse, but I still like spending the dough on all sorts of useless sh!t.

                              I'm getting better at this as time goes on and my system curbs my appetites. Saving is fun too, but for me it's an acquired taste.
                              I came upon a barroom full of bad Salon pictures in which men with hats on the backs of their heads were wolfing food from a counter. It was the institution of the "free lunch" I had struck. You paid for a drink and got as much as you wanted to eat. For something less than a rupee a day a man can feed himself sumptuously in San Francisco, even though he be a bankrupt. Remember this if ever you are stranded in these parts. ~ Rudyard Kipling, 1891

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                              • Savings programs in which you commit to paying some of your money in an agreement to a bank is alos a good disciplinary move. As soon as I get a normal job, I am going to open one of those.
                                urgh.NSFW

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