My friend doesn't trust me with his girlfirend

[VetLegion]

When you're Six Thousand Years Old, just statistically looking, you got to have made a couple of mistakes in the period...

[Six Thousand Year Old Man]

Originally posted by VetLegion
When you're Six Thousand Years Old, just statistically looking, you got to have made a couple of mistakes in the period...

There have been at least 2.

@ Pekka: cheating = starting WWII and the holocaust? Get a grip.

Anyway, point made.

[monolith94]

I think pekka's the one who's being naive here...

Anyways, yeah, I'd be kind of weirded out if the girl I was with was totally smashed with a friend of mine. And it's a natural feeling. Alcohol loosens judgement in different ways for different people. Yeah, I'd give a call, maybe two. Not only because of nagging worry about doing something stupid, but just to see that she's ok.

Haven't really been with anyone who's been into getting ridiculously drunk though, so it hasn't exactly come up.

[DanS]

Originally posted by KrazyHorse
SWe talked about clitorusies is that a no=jno?

Not a no-no for you.

Why do you think she's talking about them? Scientific curiosity? Is she offering herself as a test subject?

[Snotty]

I dont think I could get so drunk someone could take advantage of me, without having to assault me at least. But its still something I worry about

Ive got no problem with my gf drinking with friends, its not like I could make any reasonable objection to her socialising.

[The Emperor Fabulous]

Self-explanitory

[Drake Tungsten]

Only Pekka trusts me. The rest of you think I'm a scuzzbucket.

I trust you dude. Then again, I'm really drunk...

[JimmyCracksCorn]

Face it, KH. Canadian men are desperate, horny and not to be trusted. Don't blame this poor guy for knowing you better than you know yourself.

[Pekka]

No my point with the Hitler was that 'everyone makes mistakes' is some kind of an excuse to being traitor.

And that booze makes you somehow free of responsibility. It changes nothing. It might lower your inhibitions, but it was still you who did it, and unless you take it upon yourself to think about it and not blame booze for your own actions, then you will never truly make the correct change in your life, which is to take responsibility. booze is still just an excuse. It was you who drunk it, it was you who whipped out your penis out, and most of all it was you who decided NOT to change the route after you first realized you fancied her in sexual way. Because that's still the decision a person makes, when they realize they just might want to bone someone. It's that moment when they need to get back to the real world and change that route. And the booze has nothing to do with it.

When you get drunk, and you basically sell out your friend for piece of meat and sex, that's the trade you are willing to make. No amount of intoxication will change it. You sold out. Period.

I'm not saying you're a bad person that can't change. I'm saying you're making excuses here for your own behaviour. It's in the past now so you can as well get over with it and what you are saying is that if you were out with my gf, and you are both drunk, if it was up to you, you might have sex with her. That is basically what you are saying. It STILL is a decision, even if the situation is dfferent. Quick **** vs. loyalty. Easy choice if you ask me. No one forces anyone to have sex while drunk, they choose to have sex.

I mean I can understand if there is some kind of passionate hug, or even kiss. THAT I can look aside and say, well,, but sex? No way.

Hey, I feel like killing people when drunk, but I still don't. ANd if I do, then it's not because I was drunk, ti was because I'm murdereous bastard.

AND if you know you can't control your penis while drunk, then indeed you shouldn't hang out with your friends gfs. There are people who can control themselves though. Like myself and my friends.

[Jon Miller]

the example I gave the guy couldn't do anything...

same could happen with girls..

my point being, just get (That) drunk with people you trust

JM

[Pekka]

Right, right....

and it always takes two to tango if it's not forced situation, so if I had a gf who went out, got smashed and had sex with random dude, or whoever, well then she's not worth being with. If that's the kind of person she is, gets drunk and gives up the mud for anyone, then what is tha tperson? Slut. Period.

A slut that can change? Of course. It can be one time only, sure.

But I don't see why I should be some kind of rent-a-cop and follow her everywhere and restrict her freedom, because SHE MIGHT do something. If I'm with her, it means I trust her, and she can do what she wants as far as I'm concerned and partying and these things.

AND YES I would prolly call her at some point, to ask how she's doing and if there was anything funny that happened or something. But not so much to check if she's about to have sex with someone. If she does, then we're not together anymore. If she doesn't, then it's how it was supposed to be. I won't be some okind of obsessive nagging bastard just because I feel like it's my duty or right.

[Bereta_Eder]

Pekka can't we connect you with a generator of manual energy so when you type you also produce safe for the environment electricity?

[Pekka]

Yes. How can I help you, Sir? Please type a if you want massage, b if you want to hear the meaning of life, c if you want to go drinking, d if you want your computer fixed, e if you want to go out and have sex with your friends gfs.

[Illur]

and if i want my friends bf?

[Pekka]

Then you push the mud pipe.