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  • my mom almost died... because of my dad...

    I love my father, but sometimes you just have to wonder about some people.

    Before I can start with the story, some background information is necessary. My father had a stroke in 1986. He went through a lengthy recovery and eventually ended up going back to work, despite having moderately bad aphasia, speech difficulties, and being paralyzed on his right side. In addition to his stroke, he's had heart problems throughout his life. Because of the effects of his stroke, sometimes he doesn't think about his actions quite thoroughly. Which normally isn't a problem, and sometimes makes for some funny family moments.

    About two years ago, my father was diagnosed with congestive heart failure. About 7 months ago he had an afribrulation (sp?) and had to have a pacemaker put in. In July while he was driving by himself, his pacemaker went off to correct his heart and he blacked out for a few seconds. Luckily he was stopped at a stop sign at the time. But since his "incident" he has been banned from driving. This has been frustrating for him because my father values his independence and doesn't like being taken care of.

    At a recent doctor's visit, the doc said it was okay for him to take short car trips... to run errands, etc. That really brightened his mood and raised his spirits.

    So yesterday, he takes our Toyota Prius (HYBRIDS PWN ZOMFG) to get gas. He returns. No big deal.

    Today, my mom takes the Prius to work. All is well.

    Then at about 7:30 AM local time, my mom calls and talks to my dad. My dad comes into my room and explains what happens.

    Basically, my mom was on I-88 and the hood flew up while she was in the middle lane. Somehow, she managed to keep control of the car and pull over to the shoulder.

    I asked what happened, and my dad admitted to being the cause of the problem. In the Prius, the fuel door latch release is next to the hood release on the floor next to the driver seat. My dad forgot which latch opened which one, so he flipped both of them.

    I told my dad that the fuel release has a picture of a little gas dispenser and the hood release has a picture of a car with the hood opening.

    He said he wasn't about to bend down to see which was which.

    I asked him, since he pulled both, why he didn't shut the hood so it wouldn't fly up. He said he thought because it didn't fly up when he was driving that it wasn't really open.

    So needless to say, today almost SUCKED big time.

    My dad is banned from getting gas.
    Last edited by Sava; September 6, 2005, 11:02.
    To us, it is the BEAST.

  • #2
    Sounds like a scene from Tommy Boy
    Monkey!!!

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    • #3
      You should give your dad 40 lashes. Make him think twice about leaving the hood open!
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      • #4
        Originally posted by Japher
        Sounds like a scene from Tommy Boy
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        • #5
          Your room? You still live with your parents?

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Ecthy
            Your room? You still live with your parents?
            absolutely

            free room and board
            To us, it is the BEAST.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Ecthy
              Your room? You still live with your parents?
              Originally posted by Sava free room and board
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              • #8
                This whole thing makes me think of one thing for your dad sava. Scooter chair. Since he is so carless with the car get him his own scooter chair that way next time he tries to kill anyone it would be himself and he is still mobile.
                When you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
                  This whole thing makes me think of one thing for your dad sava. Scooter chair. Since he is so carless with the car get him his own scooter chair that way next time he tries to kill anyone it would be himself and he is still mobile.
                  heheh

                  he would break it...

                  my dad we be a great guy for a company to test products on...

                  if there's a way for a piece of technology to break, he will find it

                  consumer reports should hire him... it would be a new rating in their magazines... how long until stroke victim breaks it... ("stroke victim" is how my dad often refers to himself... don't ask...)
                  To us, it is the BEAST.

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                  • #10
                    What a weird look at this day Sava. This should be one of the top happiest years in the year. Your mom could have died, or even should have, since it was super dangerous and totally a flip of coin what happens.

                    But she didn't! And everyone is OK!

                    SO why the sour faces? THis is happy day!

                    In da butt.
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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by Sava
                      heheh

                      he would break it...

                      my dad we be a great guy for a company to test products on...

                      if there's a way for a piece of technology to break, he will find it

                      consumer reports should hire him... it would be a new rating in their magazines... how long until stroke victim breaks it... ("stroke victim" is how my dad often refers to himself... don't ask...)
                      With that being said i hear the crash test dummies were recruiting
                      In all seriousness i am glad to hear ur mom is ok. Seems the only thing she had to do after this was go home and change her undies. I know i would have had to
                      When you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
                      "It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
                      Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.

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                      • #12
                        Old people clearly shouldn't be allowed to drive. Lets set a maximum voting age at 60.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by OzzyKP
                          Old people clearly shouldn't be allowed to drive. Lets set a maximum voting age at 60.

                          from http://www.cnn.com/ELECTION/2004/pag.../epolls.0.html



                          60 and Older (24%)

                          Bush 54%
                          +7
                          Kerry 46%



                          so to that
                          To us, it is the BEAST.

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                          • #14
                            hehe, good to see you coming around Sava. On another note, from your same link:

                            18 - 29
                            Bush 45% Kerry 54%

                            Clearly only people under 30 should be allowed to vote. Lets lower the voting age, and set a voting age maximum.
                            Captain of Team Apolyton - ISDG 2012

                            When I was younger I thought curfews were silly, but now as the daughter of a young woman, I appreciate them. - Rah

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by OzzyKP
                              hehe, good to see you coming around Sava. On another note, from your same link:

                              18 - 29
                              Bush 45% Kerry 54%

                              Clearly only people under 30 should be allowed to vote. Lets lower the voting age, and set a voting age maximum.
                              well I'm wary about lowering the voting age because then Paris Hilton or Britney Spears would win... and then my head would just explode.
                              To us, it is the BEAST.

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