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Anyway -- there's this kid, I think he's about 18. Goes to the same gym I do, obviously gay in his mannerisms. Or, more correctly, adheres to the flamboyant gay stereotype slightly (though not totally flamboyant). Anyway, he set off my gaydar, but I don't know if most straight guys would've seen it.
I talked to him a few times while waiting for machines, etc. He seemed kinda shy, nervous. While doing some lat pulldowns I noticed on his arms lots of scars -- looks like the kid has been cutting his wrists at least once, or perhaps more minor self-mutilation.
I decided to casually mention "my boyfriend" in conversation. He looked around cautiously when I said it, to see if anyone overheard...no doubt if someone reacted he'd have disassociated with me. He basically shrugged it off and changed the topic.
Fast forward to today (the above happened over a period of a couple months). By chance when I'm in the steam room after the workout, he comes in. No one else is there. He comes and sits a couple feet from me without saying anything, removes his towel and starts stroking it while looking at me.
I ignore it for a bit, so I look at him to acknowledge that I can see what he's trying to do...and he responds "did you want to go ****?"
I'm not about to f*ck around with some psycho-depressed kid in a public gym, but clearly the kid had issues. I decided I'd be a nice guy and maybe talk with him about it...try to get him to stop hating himself.
I asked him if he wanted to grab a coffee or something -- in hindsight, probably the wrong thing to say. He got the idea that I was trying to get to know him, like boyfriend material or something.
He put the towel back over himself quickly and responded, in a deeper than normal voice, "I'm not gay".
An uncomfortable pause.
I reply "Oh...well what was that then?"
He just got up and left the steam room at that point and hurried off to change and leave the room.
I saw him in his streets clothes as he left in a hurry -- he was wearing VERY baggy clothes with a "g-unit" t-shirt...
Poor kid. He's such a fairy. He wanted to **** around but he's "not gay". He's so desperate as to proposition men at a gym, but then flees whenever they talk about anything other than sex.
Honestly, it wouldn't surprise me to see this kid jumping off a bridge at some point.
Don't know why I posted this, I'm just so massively disturbed that **** like this still goes on in a country that even has legalized gay marriage.
Anyway -- there's this kid, I think he's about 18. Goes to the same gym I do, obviously gay in his mannerisms. Or, more correctly, adheres to the flamboyant gay stereotype slightly (though not totally flamboyant). Anyway, he set off my gaydar, but I don't know if most straight guys would've seen it.
I talked to him a few times while waiting for machines, etc. He seemed kinda shy, nervous. While doing some lat pulldowns I noticed on his arms lots of scars -- looks like the kid has been cutting his wrists at least once, or perhaps more minor self-mutilation.
I decided to casually mention "my boyfriend" in conversation. He looked around cautiously when I said it, to see if anyone overheard...no doubt if someone reacted he'd have disassociated with me. He basically shrugged it off and changed the topic.
Fast forward to today (the above happened over a period of a couple months). By chance when I'm in the steam room after the workout, he comes in. No one else is there. He comes and sits a couple feet from me without saying anything, removes his towel and starts stroking it while looking at me.
I ignore it for a bit, so I look at him to acknowledge that I can see what he's trying to do...and he responds "did you want to go ****?"
I'm not about to f*ck around with some psycho-depressed kid in a public gym, but clearly the kid had issues. I decided I'd be a nice guy and maybe talk with him about it...try to get him to stop hating himself.
I asked him if he wanted to grab a coffee or something -- in hindsight, probably the wrong thing to say. He got the idea that I was trying to get to know him, like boyfriend material or something.
He put the towel back over himself quickly and responded, in a deeper than normal voice, "I'm not gay".
An uncomfortable pause.
I reply "Oh...well what was that then?"
He just got up and left the steam room at that point and hurried off to change and leave the room.
I saw him in his streets clothes as he left in a hurry -- he was wearing VERY baggy clothes with a "g-unit" t-shirt...
Poor kid. He's such a fairy. He wanted to **** around but he's "not gay". He's so desperate as to proposition men at a gym, but then flees whenever they talk about anything other than sex.
Honestly, it wouldn't surprise me to see this kid jumping off a bridge at some point.
Don't know why I posted this, I'm just so massively disturbed that **** like this still goes on in a country that even has legalized gay marriage.
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