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I don't know how to be a man.
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Reminds me of that Seinfeld where Jerry and George conclude they are half men.
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Originally posted by Barinthus
I still have a problem - I'm too nice. It's not to kiss up to anybody or whatever, I am simply a nice guy.For me, this is a problem because the nice guy is always a FRIEND. Never a lover, only a FRIEND. Basically, that's usually all I ever am.How is this a problem
Still, I've had girls attracted to me before, so I can't possibly be a 'wussie'. The last time I came across a girl I was attracted to, I knew she was attracted to me. She was so restless and fidgety when I was talking to her, and she was giggling a fair bit, like I was so much wittier than I really was. Unfortunate for me that she already had a boyfriend (and before you ask, no, I didn't know she was already committed until I asked her out).
Its a shame. Usually when I try to talk to a girl I'm attracted to, its very difficult to get the words out, but in her case... well... after taking the initial plunge, it just came to me naturally. I've never had that happen before. The whole experience was so surreal that even now, a few months on, I'm still struggling with coming to terms with it."Corporation, n, An ingenious device for obtaining individual profit without individual responsibility." -- Ambrose Bierce
"Any society that would give up a little liberty to gain a little security will deserve neither and lose both." -- Benjamin Franklin
"Yes, we did produce a near-perfect republic. But will they keep it? Or will they, in the enjoyment of plenty, lose the memory of freedom? Material abundance without character is the path of destruction." -- Thomas JeffersonComment
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I have never had a woman attracted to me. sure I've had a girlfriend. But I don't think she went out with me because she found me attractive. She went out with me because she thought I was successful (at least compared to the low income rural areas she lived in).
then she found out I wasn't as successful as she thought I was.
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Well simple rule: Dont do anything for a woman you wouldnt do for a friend (of course non-sexual things are meant...)If its no fun why do it? Dance like noone is watching...Comment
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I'm nice to my friends as well.
Why can't women just accept that some men are nice?Comment
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Spiffor, Jethro has my answer for your question
Actually based on my observations and interpretion of those, I do believe women do want a nice guy but they want someone who can be fun as well and have that 'naughty' side. Sort of like Superman/Clark Kent.... they want someone who project the Superman image to outside world - someone strong, mascline, assertive, whatever yet is her own Clark Kent in private.Originally posted by Jethro83
For me, this is a problem because the nice guy is always a FRIEND.
Mexicans have this saying for men - something like proper lady in living room yet a complete whore in the bedroom.
I have a face of an altarboy so they often assume I'm all prissy and goody shoed. So women who do wind up dating me often end up being pleasantly surprised once they get to know me more
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Haha no problem... (see I'm nice!Originally posted by Mrs. Tuberski
Oh good lord I didnt have the heart to read all of that. Sorry barinthus. Anybody with a heart sum it up for me
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Basically the guy is saying that women don't want wussies. Men think they have to be a wuss to get a girl - brownnosing them, taking their abuse, and so on.Comment
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either way, he's selling a product. Yes I'm anti-capitalist in some regards. I'm immediately suspicious of anyone selling a product. I tend to not believe a word they say.Comment
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Wuss != nice guy.Christianity: The belief that a cosmic Jewish Zombie who was his own father can make you live forever if you symbolically eat his flesh and telepathically tell him you accept him as your master, so he can remove an evil force from your soul that is present in humanity because a rib-woman was convinced by a talking snake to eat from a magical tree...Comment
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Que loco! That episode is on TV right this minute.Originally posted by Berzerker
Reminds me of that Seinfeld where Jerry and George conclude they are half men.
Everything changes, but nothing is truly lost.Comment
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TY barinthus. Speaking for my self, Idont want a wuss. I do want tuber to be a nice guy but not so nice that I can be a giant ***** to him. No brownnosing either. I want him to be nice to me cause I deserve it not cause hes an asskisser.When you find yourself arguing with an idiot, you might want to rethink who the idiot really is.
"It can't rain all the time"-Eric Draven
Being dyslexic is hard work. I don't even try anymore.Comment
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Incidentally, being an arrogant ass isn't a sure way to get women either. I'm the living proof.Why can't you be a non-conformist just like everybody else?
It's no good (from an evolutionary point of view) to have the physique of Tarzan if you have the sex drive of a philosopher. -- Michael Ruse
The Nedaverse I can accept, but not the Berzaverse. There can only be so many alternate realities. -- ElokComment
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"Most" men behave as wussies and women "never" feel attraction for wussies.
Can someone explain why a majority of people are coupled up?
The article is crap."I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure." - Clarence Darrow
"I didn't attend the funeral, but I sent a nice letter saying I approved of it." - Mark TwainComment
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Well, wussies pay and raise children, real men take the ***** only.Originally posted by Wezil
Can someone explain why a majority of people are coupled up?In Soviet Russia, Fake borises YOU.Comment
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