Well, thats the end of that

[Ted Striker]

Shawn is blonde!!!!

just kidding shawn

[Mr. Harley]

It's not a database or an assembler language routine, it one of those :whisper: user interterfaces. :/whisper:

[Alexander's Horse]

I'd like to know why anyone involved thought doing pORN ACTING WAS A GOOD IDEA

[RGBVideo]

MRT: I haven't noticed your problems before this because I just took you off from my ignore list (you've been there since you boasted around that you enjoyed ****ing your gf, who I thought was a random cheap whore, in public restrooms), then I read this entire thread.

Wow. I'm jealous -- you're a lucky guy. I wish I would've been in your position, that is, in your position about a month ago. No, seriously. If I'd have some girl I loved and would enjoy being with, I'd ask her to marry me once I'd be sure of my feelings... you, otoh, asked her to have threesome with you in porn movies.
Now I don't want to start a moral lecture (remember, the past is the past and we can't fix it), but WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? Didn't you love her? Didn't you really see this coming? Didn't you really guess that being in porn movies and ****ing with unknown fellas along with your girl messes up the relationship between you two? Didn't you really understand that ****ing around gets you all kinds of perverted diseases?

The general consensus in this thread has pretty much been that she's a whore and it's her fault and you should dump her. Well, IMHO that's not really true. Do you honestly think she'd gone all the hassle to register into this geek place if she didn't care for you and your feelings? Now you're probably mad as hell because she double-crossed you and had sex with a whole lot of other guys and infected you -- well, she might've done that, but you let her understand that ****ing around with other guys is ok by performing all sorts of wicked acts in front of a camera with her -- so she started **** around on her own. Didn't you really see this **** coming over to you?

[Alexander's Horse]

lighten up VJ

I don't think she's a whore....I think they've both been pretty foolish sure, but who hasn't... I took huge risks when I was that age.

[Mr. Harley]

I've avoided posting on blame, but VJ has one insight. Dacia still cares to some degree. If both can get past their being being young, which often translates into being d*amn fool idiots, there might be something salvagable there.

Both would have to embrace their own part in it, stop the blaming, probably get some counseling with the emotions that high. Things like that can be worked through, but it takes alot of maturity. I don't see it happening here. I strongly suspect that isn't where either is at.

Maybe they'll get together in a couple of years, remember the good old days, and realize with each other (hopefully via not catching anything else in th interim) that they don't need to use condoms - they've already gotten it from each other. They start again, as two mature adults this time. Weirder things have happened.

[Alexander's Horse]

and they both have herpes so they are the perfect couple

[Mr. Harley]

Exactly.

[Mrs. Tuberski]

Im am confused here not to bring this up on easter but i just read another thread he started. He tells reds he is mad with syphillus. I thought he said herpes whats the deal here? Syphillus is cureable better to have as far as an std goes. herpes no cure.

[self biased]

Originally posted by Alexander's Horse
lighten up VJ

I don't think she's a whore....I think they've both been pretty foolish sure, but who hasn't... I took huge risks when I was that age.

horse with the voice of reason.... are you feeling okay?

Originally posted by shawnmmcc
I've avoided posting on blame, but VJ has one insight. Dacia still cares to some degree. If both can get past their being being young, which often translates into being d*amn fool idiots, there might be something salvagable there.

Both would have to embrace their own part in it, stop the blaming, probably get some counseling with the emotions that high. Things like that can be worked through, but it takes alot of maturity. I don't see it happening here. I strongly suspect that isn't where either is at.

Maybe they'll get together in a couple of years, remember the good old days, and realize with each other (hopefully via not catching anything else in th interim) that they don't need to use condoms - they've already gotten it from each other. They start again, as two mature adults this time. Weirder things have happened.

sorry to say, but of course she still cares. he wasn't the one was caught in a lie. needless to say i stopped caring when i figured out one of my exes was lying to me. what do you expect him to do when he's betrayed like that. i'm not justifying his later actions, but a wounded man man is less in control of himself than he ought to be.

maybe they'll grow past this. i know MRT still cares to some extent, or he wouldn't be as upset as he has been.

[KrazyHorse]

Don't fall for it MRT. She ****ed around on you. She'll do it again if you get back together.

[self biased]

maybe she won't and maybe she's learned her lesson. i'm just of the opinion "fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me." she shouldn't even be allowed that chance.

[KrazyHorse]

You mean: "fool me once, shame on...shame on you. You fool me, can't get fooled again", right?

[MRT144]

mrs t, it was a joke to play off being an *******.

VJ, thanks for taking me off ignore. youre right but i wanted to do anything to make her happy and having a threesome was one of those things. its foolish and we both regret it now.

and it sounds stupid but i genuinely loved dacia, and it just hurt me so bad that she went behind my back. if she had been upfront and wanted to break things off adn be friends, it would be a lot less of a blow.

and who knows, maybe sometime down the road things will patch up, im just not going to stop living life until that happens.

[KrazyHorse]

You mean: "maybe some time down the road she's going to need me as an emotional crutch again and everything will be cool for a month until she decides to punk me another time"...