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  • I said it first. She said it back immediately.

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  • I said it first. She did not say it back immediately.

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  • She said it first. I said it back immediately.

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  • She said it first. I did not say it back immediately

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  • within 3 months

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  • within 6 months

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  • within 1 year

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  • within 2 years

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  • after 2 years

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Thread: The L Word

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    The L Word

    I've always been curious about this from the other side, but most of my guy friends don't want to talk about it. So I would like to poll only the straight males.

    I'm kind of worried my guy will say "I love you" before I'm ready for it, not necessarily any time soon, but still. I've only said it to one guy before and I'm not ready to say it to another yet. But what do I do if he says it and I don't? Like, what do I say? What would you guys prefer your girls do?

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    nevermind
    Last edited by Al B. Sure!; April 22, 2012 at 20:29.
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    If a guy says he loves you, and you don't want to say you love him back, just smile, and give him a quick blow job. It's like those twix commercials where they stall for time by shoving a twix in their mouths, except you're using the dude's dick.
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    Before I tell someone that I love them, I preface the declaration with a monologue about how I only use the word love as a shorthand for what I consider to be the most powerful emotion I can feel for another human being, but that I have no idea if this emotion bears any resemblance to the emotion that others feel when they talk about love.
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    I thought the L word was Lesbian.
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    I thought the L word was Lesbian.
    So did I. I've only called anyone the 'L word' after they broke up with me.
    There's nothing wrong with the dream, my friend, the problem lies with the dreamer.

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    Difficult to tell without knowing his personality, but I can say if he actually does love you then he will not freak out if you don't immediately respond in kind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Felch View Post
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    If a guy says he loves you, and you don't want to say you love him back, just smile, and give him a quick blow job. It's like those twix commercials where they stall for time by shoving a twix in their mouths, except you're using the dude's dick.
    We have a thread winner.
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    So did I. I've only called anyone the 'L word' after they broke up with me.
    Litch ?
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    We have a thread winner.
    Noted. I'll probably end up doing that. I've changed a bit, but not all that much.

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    Quote Originally Posted by b etor View Post
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    I've always been curious about this from the other side, but most of my guy friends don't want to talk about it. So I would like to poll only the straight males.

    I'm kind of worried my guy will say "I love you" before I'm ready for it, not necessarily any time soon, but still. I've only said it to one guy before and I'm not ready to say it to another yet. But what do I do if he says it and I don't? Like, what do I say? What would you guys prefer your girls do?
    Tell him you don't love hime before he tells you he loves you. Maybe you are unintentionally leading him on.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Felch View Post
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    If a guy says he loves you, and you don't want to say you love him back, just smile, and give him a quick blow job. It's like those twix commercials where they stall for time by shoving a twix in their mouths, except you're using the dude's dick.
    That is seriously what I was going to say.

    It's not even a joke; if you're not willing to tell a guy you love him, you might as well prove him something useful.
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    Tell him you don't love hime before he tells you he loves you. Maybe you are unintentionally leading him on.
    Or, say you don't love him, then kick him really hard in the sack. The pain in his groin will help distract from the pain in his heart.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uncle Sparky View Post
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    I've only called anyone the 'L word' after they broke up with me.
    thereby making you female?

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    Tell him you don't love hime before he tells you he loves you. Maybe you are unintentionally leading him on.
    I'll get there with him eventually.

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    Quote Originally Posted by b etor View Post
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    I'll get there with him eventually.
    Then tell him you will eventually love him. Or you could just kick him in the balls too.
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    I think I'd rather blow him.

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    That would probably be his preference as well.
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    He didn't even know what a bj was until we started dating. Yeah that's his preference.

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    It's the best thing about Catholic girls.
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    I think I'd rather blow him.
    Then what are you going to say?
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    Nothing. I'll just smile and give him a kiss. That's what I usually do when he says something super cute or smart and I don't have anything to say. He knows that's my way of telling him I like what he said, but I don't want to detract from the moment by saying something else.

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    nice, an awkward moment replaced by a hug and kiss

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    Quote Originally Posted by b etor View Post
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    Nothing. I'll just smile and give him a kiss. That's what I usually do when he says something super cute or smart and I don't have anything to say. He knows that's my way of telling him I like what he said, but I don't want to detract from the moment by saying something else.
    Well if you are going to give him a kiss you should know that that will send a message. So will the blowjob (I'm making an assumption about how it will be performed).
    If they're hiding it [mental illness] from their doctor because they want to buy a gun, I have no problem with it. - rah
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    1. If you don't love him, don't tell him you do.
    2. If he tells you he loves you, don't pretend you didn't hear.
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    Quote Originally Posted by b etor View Post
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    Nothing. I'll just smile and give him a kiss. That's what I usually do when he says something super cute or smart and I don't have anything to say. He knows that's my way of telling him I like what he said, but I don't want to detract from the moment by saying something else.
    Nice

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    thereby making you female?
    No, however within six months, the woman referenced announced she was gay.
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    1. If you don't love him, don't tell him you do.
    2. If he tells you he loves you, don't pretend you didn't hear.
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    I'll get there with him eventually.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Felch View Post
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    If a guy says he loves you, and you don't want to say you love him back, just smile, and give him a quick blow job. It's like those twix commercials where they stall for time by shoving a twix in their mouths, except you're using the dude's dick.
    This, of course, means that the guy will say "I love you" every single day. Be ready for that sort of committment to BJ's, b etor!
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