Your heart's in the right place, Korn, and I think this might work as a temporary solution for people who are really concerned about this.
However...if you install the mod and actually plan on using these "disposable" aircraft I have to ask: why not just build a cruise missle?
Many of the people upset over the airplane/ship dilemma seem focused on realism. Not sure how many are going to go for an airplane that is destroyed in attacking (might make sense if you're playing Japan, though, what with the Kamikazes and all). Many, I think, will opt simply to build cruise missles.
Thanks for giving another option, though. Mod-makers like you pick up Firaxis' slack