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I hate new poly.
I like her a lot and care about her. I don't want to break up with her, and I know it would hurt her feelings if I told her she seemed less attractive to me.
We share the same interests and she is reasonably intelligent, wants kids, great in the sack ect. I still find her attractive, but a bit less so than when we started dating.
I on the other hand look better than ever (lost ~5kg, got in shape).
The thing is I didn't even notice she gained that much, and didn't even mind it since everything else was going so well. But now she's started complaining about it, I first tried to comfort her, then when she asked me "what is your secret?" I made the stupid mistake of actually telling her and giving her advice. She very soon got upset and asked if we could talk about something else. She is under stress and is becoming increasingly difficult to deal with. I am trying really hard to be supportive, but at the end of the day I feel tired and often after we talk (we talk a lot on the phone since we don't live together) I feel sad (she sounds better by the end of the talk and that usually offsets the whole experience to neutral for me).
What should I do? How can I encourage her to loose weight and resolve the other problems that are causing her to be more and more unhappy?
Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila
[Typo in title; pounds not punds
I hate new poly.
Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila
Ask Wiglaf.
“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
"Capitalism ho!"
Go to the gym along with her
That is, do sports together
Just tell her to stop being fat or else you'll throw her out on the street.
You might find a fitter girl while your there.
“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
"Capitalism ho!"
Whatever is causing the stress and depression is causing the weight gain.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
"Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead
Or is keeping her from getting fatter.
“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
"Capitalism ho!"
Anyway, even if she improves now, this is still a sign of things to come. It's time to move on.
“As a lifelong member of the Columbia Business School community, I adhere to the principles of truth, integrity, and respect. I will not lie, cheat, steal, or tolerate those who do.”
"Capitalism ho!"
This thread should probably be closed now since the right answer has been given. Nothing good can come fo it being kept open
The problem is I don't really have a lot of the time to spend working out with her.Originally Posted by Kitschum
Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila
Then I don't see a future for the two of you. Sorry
What are you going to do when she gets old?
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
"Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead
and starts popping out kids?
I don't see evidence of wild women clamoring for you. I see you calling you good things.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
"Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead
Don't worry, she'll lose some of that weight once the baby is due.
That's why she's stressed. She doesn't know how to tell you, or how you'll react. She asked self, Winston and me to tell you.
Life is not measured by the number of breaths you take, but by the moments that take your breath away.
"Hating America is something best left to Mobius. He is an expert Yank hater.
He also hates Texans and Australians, he does diversify." ~ Braindead
If you can't exercise together, make her go on top and work more when you **** each other.
Ideally do this three times a day. She'll lose the weight in no time.
You just wasted six ... no, seven ... seconds of your life reading this sentence.
Agreed. Very few are the instances where life is not noticeably improved by girl-on-top sex.
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He could get crushed!
Win-Win from our POV.
You just wasted six ... no, seven ... seconds of your life reading this sentence.
She's a year older so I see your point.
But dude I haven't been together with her for that long (less than a year).
This isn't aging this is change. I don't mind a women slowly gaining weight over the years, since men don't tend to look better either and this is probably offset by a stronger emotional connection.
And the real problem is that her wieght gain is making her sad.
Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila
One more thing I hate about women. When they ask you what you did to lose weight, they actually really don't want to know. And may get pissed if you try to go into it.
“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
- John 13:34-35 (NRSV)
Option a) Commit, and accompany her to the gym
Option b) Quit it fast (because you will anyway sooner or later)
Make sure you have hot goodbye sex first though.
You just wasted six ... no, seven ... seconds of your life reading this sentence.
Can you tell me what her log in on poly is?That's why she's stressed. She doesn't know how to tell you, or how you'll react. She asked self, Winston and me to tell you.
Modern man calls walking more quickly in the same direction down the same road “change.”
The world, in the last three hundred years, has not changed except in that sense.
The simple suggestion of a true change scandalizes and terrifies modern man. -Nicolás Gómez Dávila
Start having sex with a thinner woman immediately. When your current girlfriend finds out, tell her it's her fault for getting fat.
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Stadtluft Macht Frei
Killing it is the new killing it
Get Rich or Die Tryin'
Make sure you have hot goodbye sex first though.
But be sure you are on top
“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
- John 13:34-35 (NRSV)
Sorry Hera... it's meCan you tell me what her log in on poly is?
“I give you a new commandment, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also should love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”
- John 13:34-35 (NRSV)
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