Today I went to the court to sign the paper, agreeing to officially be divorced. So... it's over now. When I get the letter home, I wil then do the most imrpotant thing; update my facebook profile. Divorced and single! YES! Made it!
There were moments when I was not even sure if I would survive that woman alive. My worst nightmares, her inheriting all I had was close... now? She gets nothing. Nada. She's out. Out for good.
COuld not be happier about that. IN fact, I have some bubbly, I'll get a glass... I'll celebrate this properly later on, but one glass next.
Thank you friends for good advice and support throughout the whole ordeal. It was not easy, but we came through and kicked everone's asses!
This owuld be the perfect moment for the marching and to come in with the stippers, but alas, I'll settle for the glass of bubbly. I'll get a lap dance with my first pay cheque. I'm stingy like that. But, I handle money so... no such thing as credit.
They called me from the Finnish Broadcasting Company, asking if I'd be OK with various of different TV formats for the epic walk. I answered I don't care, it is for raising awareness and money for research so I only want free boots and gear to do the walk, otherwise I'm not interested in money so what ever works best.
BUuut... I'm freeee! And I have a date on Sunday. Not this week, next week... She's this PhD student who lectures about chemistry, is a chemist and has a weird sense of humor. Very independent, not too touchy feely. Wants to be alone often times, as do I. We laugh at each other's stuff. She is funny. AND she does BJJ. And likes MMA. So... it's like, kind of perfect? Perfect enough to go for a date and hope for the best. I actually was anxious to ask her for a date. For the longest time, I was nervous. I asked, she said yes, so we're a go. We'll go eating, I'm picking the place. I'll pay for it as well, she probably doesn't want me to but I'll just do it anyway and try to leverage the situation if we like each other to go and have a coffee, then to the next place, maybe drinks... but I will not have sex with her the first day. Nope. I don't believe in rules with adults but she is such a great catch, I would never want to ruin it with sex stuff. We can do that later on.
There were moments when I was not even sure if I would survive that woman alive. My worst nightmares, her inheriting all I had was close... now? She gets nothing. Nada. She's out. Out for good.
COuld not be happier about that. IN fact, I have some bubbly, I'll get a glass... I'll celebrate this properly later on, but one glass next.
Thank you friends for good advice and support throughout the whole ordeal. It was not easy, but we came through and kicked everone's asses!
This owuld be the perfect moment for the marching and to come in with the stippers, but alas, I'll settle for the glass of bubbly. I'll get a lap dance with my first pay cheque. I'm stingy like that. But, I handle money so... no such thing as credit.
They called me from the Finnish Broadcasting Company, asking if I'd be OK with various of different TV formats for the epic walk. I answered I don't care, it is for raising awareness and money for research so I only want free boots and gear to do the walk, otherwise I'm not interested in money so what ever works best.
BUuut... I'm freeee! And I have a date on Sunday. Not this week, next week... She's this PhD student who lectures about chemistry, is a chemist and has a weird sense of humor. Very independent, not too touchy feely. Wants to be alone often times, as do I. We laugh at each other's stuff. She is funny. AND she does BJJ. And likes MMA. So... it's like, kind of perfect? Perfect enough to go for a date and hope for the best. I actually was anxious to ask her for a date. For the longest time, I was nervous. I asked, she said yes, so we're a go. We'll go eating, I'm picking the place. I'll pay for it as well, she probably doesn't want me to but I'll just do it anyway and try to leverage the situation if we like each other to go and have a coffee, then to the next place, maybe drinks... but I will not have sex with her the first day. Nope. I don't believe in rules with adults but she is such a great catch, I would never want to ruin it with sex stuff. We can do that later on.
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